the blues, rock and roll *old school*, punk rock (anti flag, Nofx, and so on), some techno (you know... it needs a good beat and good sound), not too much metal.... maybe a little bit, that's about it I think
everythiong you have listed up there is a role playing game, due to the fact that you are playing the role of another person
but i have played some pen and paper rpgs, and they can be a little more real, depending on the GM
but I quit playing them because i have no one to game with and it...